In the seven years of Andrew’s life, his connection with God and his spiritual encounters continue to bring others to the faith, assure others of an afterlife and offer hope to many. (COURTESY)

Family finds unexpected graces

ORLANDO | In 2013, Andrew’s family was fairly typical and not especially devout. They participated in the celebration of Mass every Sunday and their eldest was in faith formation at an early age.

Then Andrew was diagnosed with diffuse intrinsic pontine glioma, “a tumor located inside the brainstem that is a lot like a spider web and is entwined in the brainstem itself,” explained his mother, Lee Anne. Andrew was 2 ½ years old.

His family’s journey over the following five years would leave many unanswered questions, but mostly gratitude for a life full of unexpected graces.

In the United States, the only approved treatment for Andrew’s tumor is radiation, offering an estimated nine months of life from diagnosis to death. Andrew was given only six weeks.

“This cancer is uniformly fatal, with less than 1 percent of those children diagnosed living past one year,” Lee Anne explained.

Andrew lived almost five years, but the spiritual experiences he had during that time reaffirmed and ignited the faith of the many he encountered. The young boy’s faith and his experiences found root in his pilgrimage to Lourdes, France. He was 3, and one of 50 patients selected from thousands after initially being rejected.

“I remember him telling me that he saw the face of Jesus when he was in Lourdes,” said his grandmother, Anne Hurley. “His comment was, ‘He’s a nice guy, Nana.’ … He remembered, to the day he died, everything that happened to him at Lourdes.”

Lee Anne said her son was “obsessed” with returning to Lourdes. He said to her, “Jesus and Mary are there.”

“I don’t think Andrew, at his age, understood ‘I have faith,’” Lee Anne said. “I think it was just something that was ever-present.”

That relationship with Christ became increasingly evident as time passed. Once, Andrew asked his grandmother, “Nana, do you know that I talk to angels?” She said, “I’ve heard that, buddy.” “Well, what do you think?” he asked. She replied, “I think that’s pretty cool. I wish they’d talk to me.” And he never said anything else.

“There was never any exaggeration or carrying on,” Hurley recalled. “He would tell these stories very matter-of-fact. We thought it was part of the tumor.”

But in all the research they did, nowhere did it say that patients with Andrew’s tumor experience hallucinations. Andrew would share these experiences randomly.

The family recalled how Andrew was naturally compassionate. “He had it in abundance and it spilled over into helping the homeless,” his grandmother said.

Because of his persistence, the family started filling gallon bags with bottles of water and other items for those in need. The family would keep them in the car and give them away, everywhere from Miami to North Carolina. Later, Andrew decided to hand out rosaries as well. His sister, Hannah, recalled when he made his mother give away their umbrella.

His love for the homeless moved the family to spend a Sunday helping at the Coalition for the Homeless in Orlando recently. Lee Anne shared that the family is trying to honor his love of others.
“I watched him get money from my in-laws and just empty his pockets and reach out and give it away,” she said. “He taught all of us. We do give, but he didn’t learn that magnitude from us. He took it to a whole other level.”

Andrew died Feb. 2 at the age of 7. At his bedside were both Franciscan Father Todd Carpenter, pastor of St. Joseph/St. Maximilian Kolbe, where Andrew was a parishioner, and Father Chris Dorsey of St. James Cathedral, who anointed Andrew and confirmed him.

“I had faith before Andrew was diagnosed, but my faith strengthened while on the (cancer) journey,” Lee Anne said. “Andrew always had this peace and complete trust in God and heaven.”

Reflecting on the rarity of living years past his diagnosis, his grandmother believes Andrew “was kept here for the collective us.”

“He had a message to deliver,” she said. “He was hope and inspiration to other people in his situation, as well as the faith component.”

His grandfather, Bob Hurley, believes Andrew was “here to bring people back to God.”

“He got me and he’s still working,” he said. “You have an obligation if you’re involved in a miracle; you have to share it.”